Easy Way to throw a Charming Wedding Day

Trying to throw a small yet elegant wedding on a low budget? Here’s an idea for a wedding that should cost you $1000 or less!

I have gotten some “Ask Tinka” emails about throwing a wedding as little as $1000 so I decided to respond with an idea I have.  Afterall, everyone deserves to celebrate their wedding– even those who don’t have $15,000 to spend!

If I were getting married with a small budget and wanted to have a simple wedding day with only close family and friends, this is what I would do: I would have the wedding and reception at my home or the home of a close relative or friend. It’s cozy and best of all, FREE! I would wear a simple white sundress and have my groom wear something casual like khakis and a white shirt. Then, instead of a traditional buffet or sit-down dinner, I’d serve coffee, hot chocolate, and cake! Get your favorite songs together to play on your stereo and have a designated area for dancing. Keep the reception short– about an hour or two and maybe serve wine and beer.

That sounds just delightful to me :)

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June 2009 Poll

How long have you been engaged?

  • 6 months or less (43.0%)
  • 6 months to 1 year (35.0%)
  • 1-2 years (19.0%)
  • 2+ years (3.0%)

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May 2009 Featured Business: Milledgeville Limousine Services, Inc.

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Milledgeville Limousine Service, Inc. was founded in 2008 to provide the people of Milledgeville and surrounding areas with a convenient, safe, stylish, and affordable alternative to celebrate many of life’s special occasions. The owner/operator, Tracy Daugherty, a retired educator, taught in various colleges throughout the South for nearly 40 years.

Milledgeville Limousine Service, Inc. offers a full array of customer directed charters. Our goal is to provide our customers with safe, convenient, and affordable transportation. And for a nominal extra charge, we can stock the limousine with ice, water, your choice of beverages, newspapers, or whatever else you would like to take on your journey. Below is a sampling of how our customers may want to use our service:

  • Dining out
  • Shopping
  • Retirement parties
  • Weddings
  • Funerals
  • Anniversaries
  • Special lunches
  • Girls’ nights out
  • Boys’ nights out
  • Proms
  • Birthday parties
  • Valentine’s Day
  • Tailgate parties to Athens
  • Atlanta/Macon sporting events
  • Airport transport to Atlanta/Athens/and Macon
  • Transport to and from Grooms in Macon  
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May 2009 Poll

Buffet or sit-down dinner?

  • Sit-down dinner (57.0%)
  • Buffet (43.0%)

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5 Hidden Costs of a Wedding

Trying to stick to a strict budget? Don’t forget these hidden costs of having a wedding!

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  1. Gratuity! Gratuity is usually added to the final bill for your caterer. However, it is also polite to tip waiters/waitresses, bartenders, church musicians, and any others who you think deserve it.
  2. Taxes! Don’t forget to include taxes in your budget for the dress and tux, flowers, food, and beverages. You may think you are paying $20 per person and end up paying over $25!
  3. Overtime! Many wedding vendors such as photographers and DJs charge overtime fees. You never know until the day of your wedding how long you are going to need them so make sure to work this out BEFORE your big day!
  4. Food for your wedding vendors! Don’t forget to feed your wedding vendors! Your photographer, videographer, DJ, etc. will probably be at your wedding for more than 6 hours. Unless you want them to leave to get dinner, make sure you have a meal for each of them.
  5. Postage! Some invitations can cost up to $2 for postage. If you are sending out 100 invitations, that adds up to $200. Make sure to leave some room in your budget for stamps.
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How is your wedding etiquette?

Should you list where you are registered on your wedding invitations?



Is it okay to have a cash bar?



Is it acceptable to send the same thank you card to each person who sent you a wedding gift?



How long should wedding guests have to wait for the arrival of the bride and groom at the reception?




Should you make all the lodging accomodations for your guests at a 5-star hotel?



If the wedding is called off, do you return the gifts?



Do you have to invite children to the wedding?



Invite your guest's partner if they are...







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Cute -n- Sexy Wedding Party Tees!

The cutest t-shirts for brides-to-be and the whole wedding party @ Bridal Party Tees.Com!

And they are having a sale… buy 3 shirts, get the 4th free. Also, free shipping for orders over $50.

They have original and hip designs that any bride-to-be would love!

Our top 5 designs:
- Just Hitched (complete w/ cowgirl boots)
- Bridezilla ROAR!
- Homegirl of the Bride
- Groom- Under New Management
- Team Bride

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A question for you brides (and grooms) to be!

What are your wedding colors?

Leave a comment, and let us know.

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Just for Fun: Wedding Acronyms!

You see these wedding acronyms all the time and barely know what they each mean…. well here is a good breakdown:

BM= bridesmaid or best man
MOH= maid/matron of honor
GM= groomsmen
FH= future husband
FW= future wife
FG= flower girl
RB= ring bearer
MOB= mother of the bride
MOG= mother of the groom
FOB= father of the bride
FOG= father of the groom

Any others?

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April 2009 Ask Tinka

I am currently planning my wedding, and we are trying to make a decision about whether or not to serve liquor at the reception. My family is for it and claims weddings are boring without it, but my fiance’s family is totally against it. We are paying for the wedding ourselves so whatever my fiance and I decide will go. I just don’t want to anger either side.
-Heather

 

Dear Heather,
I am always all for doing whatever is going to make you and your fiance happy on your wedding day. However, you should always show your guests respect. In other words, do what makes you happy without horribly offending your family. I would suggest completely eliminating liquor. You can serve champagne with the toasts and then maybe offer beer and wine. Also offer cider or something similar to those who do not wish to drink. This way, those who want to drink will (in moderation) and those that are against drinking don’t have to.

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